Being n Teaching to be Positive...

 I am totally believing in Thinking Positive, Believing In the Positives, n Being Positive will Bring Positive into My Life...

I see some coaches, teachers n parents teaching some children that they are great(n yes they are) that they can do great things(again that is great n true) n telling kids they can do what ever they want like be a pro-sportsman, actor/actress, or even President(yes teach them to have a goal, aim n reach for great things), these are great things to teach children!!!

Teaching children that they can do great is so wonderful (YAY) but I worry about the children that are not allowed to be a child 1st, being pushed into performing as a professional sportsman n not allowed to really enjoy what they are doing, n children being taught winning at all costs... A child needs to have fun, make friends n care about their fellow friends (other children) n be loved if they lose or win n cheered on when they care for others... A child should not be screamed at for failing, making a mistake or crying because that is when that child needs their coach, teacher n parent to lift them up not to say oh poor baby but hey take a break drink some water take a few deep breaths then try it again... 

There is a line one side the children are pushed too hard n not allowing them to be a child which is Very Bad!!! The other side of the line that a child is not encouraged to do great or even babied so child become shy of trying to do great things(I know this side well when things got too hard my father said no prob I didn't have to try again leading me into a mind set to give up when things didn't go they way I wanted them to do) n I seethe other side parents n coaches blowing up because a kid didn't do as good as they wanted the child to do... A child needs to stay a child for the time they are a child n parents, coaches n teachers that don't allow a child to be a child n yell at them because the the child didn't do as good as they wanted the child to do is being very unfair to the child n yelling at child for not being a superstar in a sport, dancing, cheering n etc is very upsetting the adult should placed in a time out in a box listening to screaming animals for an hour for every minute they yelled at the child... 

I totally believe teaching being positive, teach to reach n believe for success, aim high, dream, plan for success, have fun, teach kindness n fairness, teach to love others n it is good to work as a team but a child has to be allowed to be a child n as we need to have fun children really need to have fun as they grow up... We can lose n be happy at same time, if we did our best n we had fun doing it hen we should be happy n teach that to the children as well... Also if we are the winner we should be thankful to the others that we competed with without them there would have not been an event to compete in or had event to have fun with... Competing events should be fun for everyone involved win, lose or draw...

Guess my thing is not liking anyone thinking n teaching a person is better than someone else, yes many have skills that they are better at than others but we all have things we can do better than others n just because someone can do a sport better then another doesn't make them a better person, was Babe Ruth better than Robin Williams??? No!!! Was Robin Williams better than Babe Ruth??? Again No...

Ok, let children be children...

Let them dream n discover their own dreams...

Be there to support n guide them but don't shove/whip them into losing their childhood...

Be a positive in their goals n their life...

Also;

Just because we are grown up doesn't mean we can't dream n reach higher so,

Dream Again, Reach for Dream n Believe in That Dream!!!

Believe in Your Dreams n a Child's Dream...

Be Positive in life, dream n goals - yours n the child's!!!

Ok, Some might think You are nuts well maybe but I am hoping to teach in dreaming again, let children be children n teach being positive n fairness n of course to love our fellow humans at all costs!!!

Written by an imperfect human but a caring human n sharing with U;

HUGs!!!

Giovano 'Koala' Fusco Jr. - 2/25/2016

Starting my new lane on the same path...

The video's lighting isn't to good sorry about that...

http://youtu.be/p07eb07aXrQ

Believe in yourself...

http://youtu.be/AOPe-l_O5uk

Good Morning

Today's 2/18/2015 video blog:

http://youtu.be/FbC5o_GFSdA

Good Afternoon Everyone...

I slept much later then I planned, think mainly because was having a series of dreams I will getting in to in a bit...
Body is achy today just took a muscle relaxer because I can feel the side n back muscles are all tight maybe I need to loosen the screws in my neck... :-D
I know muscle will be ok, I have been blessed with many pains that have been taken cared of my simple meds like tylenols, muscle relaxer, Rx gel n even for my acute pains my tramadols do well on n was super blessed to have my chronic lower n mid back bone pain disappear totally the day after a men's retreat it only comes back if I over do my body's ability... I am also blessed/lucky to be alive still think about my doctor telling my mother to buy a casket n him being surprised I survived n then being surprised by the recovery I did n what stuff I regained so, I am blessed n grateful for so much, HUGs to U all...

Now for my dreams, it started out me trying to go out n mean the local street/homeless people of Bradenton to befriend them but they were not welcoming , as my days as a local drunk in Maine street people are not welcoming until they see U drunk or drinking some booze then are asking if they can have some... In this dream I was not seen as a street person so they didn't openly welcome me but I followed the group in my wheelchair got to know a few of them... Once they started to get use to me I got to know more n here where the dream turned interesting I slipped a ticket into a few people's pockets for free meals n then pulled a few aside to offer them free housing for 6months... This told me that I had to have won the lotto like I plan... :-) I offered the 6month free home to those that wanted a to change n the only thing I asked is that they stay sober n work on lifting themselves up... Then the dream turned to a building that I am going to own with small rooms with bathrooms in each so rooms had a bunk bed for two people n other rooms with a couple bunk beds for family with children  all rooms had old color TVs (yup big bulking tube type not of any value anymore in pawn shops) during 5am to 11pm operated a cafe with free hot meals, coffee, tea, n juices n a couple vending machine that were pay only to get stuff from like soda or candy but cafe did offer free healthy snacks during open hours for free... People could earn money by working around the complex yard work office work of cleaning work also had rooms for private counseling n meeting hall for group meetings both to help with issues that many wanted help with... This was such a cool dream I didn't want to wake I just want to continue in it n soak up as much as I could from it n as you see by the length of this update it I soaked up a lot so was worth the extra time I was a sleep... This might be a goal for me to do when I win the MegaMillions!!!

I love my detailed dreams n I try to learn from them n hope sharing them makes others smile n when(almost wrote 'if') I make a dream become real I will share the pictures n videos... I believe Dreams Can Come True, n We All Need to Dream again Like We did as a Child, no dreaming of riding a dragon or battling Romulans but Dream of owning a new home, being pain free, being happy n Loved!!!

HUGs!!!

My Vid for today 2/16/2015

http://youtu.be/mEmtQ-bI3Ik